Giving too much attention displaces the attention of anyone involved. The presence of the opposite sex or the one you love/cherish gives room for adrenaline to function effectively but almost foolishly. You begin to talk louder, play better, work faster, work harder, think bluntly,etc. This has been into being for ages and has no permanent antidote but, self-control can have it covered. The self-control here requires a reasonable level of preparedness and readiness not to change your mind even when things aren't working directly the way you are prepared for it. What I am driving at is that the person that easily drive your emotions is the one you LOVE and that should be JESUS. If you have not grown to the level at which the things of God drives you out of your weak state, drives you out of your comfort zone, brings strength even when you thought you are weak, you need to grow now. Earthly love is a compulsory mirage You must be swift to make things balance once it is happening. Ch...